Best friends definitely shouldn't go around hurting each other like that. You're supposed to care for each other. Sure you can tease each other sometimes, but breaking bones is... that's messed up!
Sometimes people are bad at talking, you know? They're bad at expressing themselves, or understanding themselves, and they act out... and regret it, and apologize, and isn't it okay? Bones heal, after all. They don't mean to hurt me. They're just a little awkward.
It's not okay. If you do something to hurt someone-- really hurt someone-- you can't just apologize and make it okay immediately! Friendships is something you have to work at, and sometimes it's hard, and people are complicated and feelings are difficult, but you have to be willing to do the work. If they hurt you, over and over, how do you really know they don't mean it? They have to learn to control themselves.
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Best friends definitely shouldn't go around hurting each other like that. You're supposed to care for each other. Sure you can tease each other sometimes, but breaking bones is... that's messed up!
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[ It's still worth it. ]
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[ this is hilarious. he dies so soon. anyway ]
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[ PLEASE I hope whoever kills Kano tomorrow breaks a bone so Kano can stare Swan in the eyes the entire time ]
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[ We'll see if Swan still thinks the same after trial ]
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If someone doesn't like what you do, they should talk about it, not hurt you.
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Sometimes people are bad at talking, you know? They're bad at expressing themselves, or understanding themselves, and they act out... and regret it, and apologize, and isn't it okay? Bones heal, after all. They don't mean to hurt me. They're just a little awkward.
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It's not okay. If you do something to hurt someone-- really hurt someone-- you can't just apologize and make it okay immediately! Friendships is something you have to work at, and sometimes it's hard, and people are complicated and feelings are difficult, but you have to be willing to do the work. If they hurt you, over and over, how do you really know they don't mean it? They have to learn to control themselves.
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Because we're friends, and— ...family, too. I know they love me, just as much as I love them.
[ Which is a whole lot. So no, his family would never hurt him on purpose, wow, the sheer audacity of suggesting that. ]
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... You can care about someone and still hurt them.
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[ Friends break bones sometimes. Physical hurt means nothing to Kano. ]
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[ physical hurt is bad ?? emotional is too. hurt is bad. ]
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[ Especially when you aren't worth anything. ]
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Is it? Why?
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What do you mean why? Because the other person is more important, right?
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Why are they more important than you?
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Because I love them. I would do anything for them, even at the cost of my life.
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[ Straight up: no way, that's insane ]
I wouldn't want them to, anyways.
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[ Again: no way, that's insane ]
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You shouldn't hurt dogs, either!!!
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