[ they are trying to think of an example that he already knows about... ]

Oh. Like, an amazing amount of people did not register the explanation they gave your first few days here. So they went around assuming things, instead of going to us for clarification.

[ it was funny. anyway. ]

But mostly, I think a lot of people here see it as more black and white. If someone does not appear to be outwardly upset, then they clearly do not care, so they're a bad person. Shit like that.